Warning about the character:

Natanael Costa / Jake

Gay Brazilian Escort London / Confidence Trickster

I am sharing this story in an effort to help others understand how dangerous Nathan is, and to help them make better choices to protect themselves from his lies.

For several years, Nathan acted as my boyfriend. He told me he had genuine love for me, but the reality was that he is just a sex worker and escort using me for money, a home, and immigration papers. For years, he lied and was caught cheating repeatedly. He would convince me he loved me, and the cycle would repeat.

Looking back, the warning signs were all there. He never even followed me on Instagram; he never introduced me to his friends or included me in his plans. I later uncovered messages where he was pretending my apartment was his; he was going on dates (both romantic and sexual) and attending group sex parties in secret. He kept my existence a secret despite living with me for six years.

Fast forward to years later, he bullied me, abused me, and was violent to the point where I had to lock myself in my own bathroom, covered in my blood. He uses increasing amounts of drugs and is unstable.

He has committed financial fraud, beyond stealing money from me and using my credit card without permission. He has also opened a large number of fake accounts, withdrawn the maximum balance, and left them unpaid. He did this in secret, only emptying the accounts before he left. Now, I have debt collectors coming to my home looking for him, causing trouble for me and my neighbors.

The friends he does have are also sex workers, and he never had an explanation as to how he knew all of them. His sister Kledyna is also not to be trusted as she lies on his behalf.

Now his life as a sex worker is no secret (he maintains a Sleepyboy escort profile, that I was sent), but I know there is a real chance he will prey on further victims and use his body and charm to manipulate them into giving him money, a home, or travel.

He's a liar. Don't ever trust him. Nathan is a fake, drug-addicted, violent escort thief.

I don't wish to spend any further energy thinking about this, but writing a public statement about this felt an appropriate action to take to help prevent others from making the same mistakes that I did.

I've have lost years of my life living in a false relationship with him; I'll never get that time or energy back, it was all for nothing, I was used. He cannot be permitted to inflict this on people. I'm not the first, and I wont be the last.